From Productivity to Purpose.



In the bustling streets of New York City, where the pace is relentless and ambition runs high, I found myself entangled in the web of endless productivity. 

As a real estate agent navigating the competitive landscape of the Big Apple, I was constantly chasing numbers, striving to close deals, and sacrificing bits of my soul along the way. 

As I toiled through the days, I couldn’t shake the feeling of emptiness gnawing at my core. The relentless pursuit of productivity was soul-crushing, leaving me drained and disillusioned. 

It was in this state of emptiness that I realized I needed to shift my focus from productivity to fulfillment, to embark on a journey of self-actualization and reclaim the essence of my humanity.

Refocusing on Fulfillment

In a world obsessed with productivity hacks and efficiency gains, we often overlook the deeper yearnings of the human spirit.

We’ve been conditioned to believe that success is synonymous with productivity, that the accumulation of wealth and status is the ultimate pursuit.

But what if I told you that true fulfillment lies beyond the metrics of productivity?

My Personal Awakening

I’ve walked the path of chasing pure productivity, tirelessly grinding away in pursuit of success.

I’ve tasted the bitter fruits of burnout and disillusionment, realizing that the relentless pursuit of productivity is a hollow endeavor.

But through introspection and personal reinvention, I’ve discovered a new paradigm—a paradigm centered on personal fulfillment.

My journey has not been easy.

Navigating through the pressures student loans, societal expectations, a cutthroat industry and impossible self-imposed standards —was HELL.

But through it all, I held onto a flickering flame of hope, the belief that there was more to life than the rat race I was running.

Crafting a Fulfilling Life

So how does one transition from productivity to fulfillment?

How do we break free from the shackles of societal norms and chart a course towards self-actualization?

Here are some actions I took on my personal journey – and I hope they save you from wasted time, mis-invested energy and plenty of sleepless nights.

  1. Identify Your Motivations:

    Take the time to understand what truly drives you. Explore Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs and craft your life around fulfilling those needs. 

    I found it really helpful to take personality tests like the MBTI, DISC, and Enneagram. (I’m an INTJ, Enneagram 4 and DISC “C”)

    No test is going to tell you exactly about yourself, but look at it as introspective exercise. Use what resonates – disregard the rest.

  2. Define Your Passion: 

    Blah Blah – everybody says this but have you really articulated what this means for you? Can you without hesitation answer – 

    What sets your soul on fire?

    What activities bring you joy and fulfillment?

    In their book “Designing Your Life” by Bill Burnett and Dave Evans – they encourage a “Wayfinding” exercise where you literally write down on a scale how much excitement and joy your everyday activities bring you.

    Over time, this information is SO useful.

    Explore your passions and integrate them into your daily life.

  3. Embrace the “Flow State”: 

    Set aside time each day to enter a flow state—a state of effortless concentration and deep immersion. 

    From athletes, to writers, to salespeople alike —this is where true fulfillment is found. I like Writer/Youtuber Dan Koe’s theory on the “4 Hour Workday.”

    This sounds like Tim Ferriss’s “4 Hour Workweek” – but instead it pinpoints the wisdom of uninterrupted 4-Hour work blocks of focus.

    Multi-tasking is for Hibachi Chefs.

    Instead of being a master of none, eliminate all distractions and focus on the tasks at hand.

  4. Strive for Self-Actualization:

    Aim to realize your full potential, to become the best version of yourself.

    Embrace your unique gifts and talents, and pursue them with unwavering passion.

     I’ve always been energized by comparison and competition, but it always wound up wreaking havoc on my self-esteem and self-work.

     There’s always someone much better than you, with more sharpened talents and gifted circumstances.

    When I started measuring my success against my own best performance – I could feel good about my progress and actually move the needle towards a better more authentic version of myself.

Closing Thoughts

As a former salesperson caught in the death-grip of chasing productivity, I can attest to the transformative power of refocusing work around personal fulfillment.


A satisfying life is not about chasing numbers for their own sake or climbing the corporate ladder—it’s about embracing the richness of the human experience and living a life filled that has purpose and meaning for you.

So I urge you to take a step back, to reassess your priorities, and embark on your own journey of self-discovery.

Embrace personal fulfillment as the ultimate goal, and watch as your life transforms into one with more joy, passion, and satisfaction.


Remember, productivity may bring temporary success, but fulfillment brings lasting happiness.



Here’s to a life lived with purpose and meaning.

Hi, I’m Rob.


I’m the guy sharing his insights based on personal real-life lessons learned, and surviving a total-plunge into the bottomless world of personal development.

My goal is to offer my insights and a meaningful vision for the future based on personal introspection, the pursuit of knowledge, and creative self-expression.